The nature of any woman has a desire to like the opposite sex and be loved. And sometimes a girl tends to despair due to the fact that all her efforts are not crowned with success.
And if the partnership is developing, the torment begins, how to remain desired for your man.
Psychologists are unanimous. If a person has a dissatisfaction with himself, intuitively this will be felt by the partner.
To avoid suffering, it is necessary to rethink the following rule: to love yourself, taking into account all the comments, recommendations that men make.
If you follow the tips below, then the likelihood of like and captivate a man with his person increases several times.
It is important to remember that you need to remain yourself and follow your feelings. In no case do not deceive your own "I".
10. Vulgarity
On the topic of vulgarity, it is customary to profess a male point of view. A man is a conqueror, a warrior. In communication with him there can be no question of a “blue plate with a gold border.”
There must be some inaccessibility, understatement. The fine line between accessibility and inaccessibility. A man should have a space where he can compete for a woman. After all, a man subconsciously reacts to a woman.
And if a man is deprived of a “field for struggle”, so to speak, “put on a chain” of life, then adventures and conquests will wait for him somewhere on the side.
9. Excessive shyness
Behind excessive shyness can be fear or anxiety that, due to inept actions, a woman will lose a man. If the chosen one is virgin, perhaps in her life there were no male friends and there was no experience of romantic experiences.
A complex of lovingly shy girls can also be found in those who were the only children in the family or naturally secluded.
The statistics are stubborn. And, according to science, shyness does not affect the likelihood of partnerships.
8. Imitation of others
The experience of personal relationships can only be personal. Whether bad or good, but only his own.
There is a concept of sexual constitution. It is unique. If you use someone else's experience, and it will be unsuccessful, you can bring each other to a nervous breakdown.
An important detail, if some ideas in the intimate sphere were borrowed somewhere, then you should not give links to the source. Everything is presented as one's desire to experiment with the good consent of the partner.
And what definitely does not need to be transferred to the field of relations is the behavior of famous and not so women. Naturalness is the best way to attract the other half.
7. Constant guilt
The burden of affairs of the past can hunch or bend a person very much. If problems require active human participation, then it is necessary to delegate to other participants in the experience process.
Getting yourself back is a very difficult task. But doable. What can not but rejoice.
6. Overconfidence
In any relationship, it is more profitable for a woman to have the position of a “gray cardinal”. Such women are called worldly wise or diplomatic.
A hyperactive woman makes any dialogue difficult. The nerdy strives to share his point of view, even if there are only men among the interlocutors.
Moreover, you need to be careful in communicating with your partner. If you constantly hear "I, I and I again," then even the most energetic man will get bored.
5. Bad manners
Cultural relationships with others are also welcome in personal life. Intelligence, good manners will bring a special touch to intimacy.
A man during sex is naked in the literal and figurative sense. The penchant for rudeness in words and actions is absolutely unacceptable.
Meetings between people take place in the most unusual places. Spark no matter where to run between people. Only she will be seen not among the noise, rudeness and din. But the main thing is not where there is no respect for each other.
In addition, communication with the immediate environment, parents may require simple knowledge, skills in order to make a favorable impression.
4. Well-groomed appearance
This is the problem of all the problems. So how to comprehend the science of "how to be beautiful" is necessary. And first of all for yourself. To increase your self-esteem.
The skin of the hands, face, neck first of all gives out its mistress. Bitten marigolds. Split hair. Regrown hair roots. A man loves with his eyes. And if so, then it is not difficult to be different.
In clothes, using perfumes that are different in time of day and season. It is not recommended that girls save on consultations of makeup artists and cosmetologists.
3. The purchase of asexual clothing
According to men, clothing that disfigures a woman’s figure is asexual. These are overalls that are associated with a uniform. These are leggings.
This clothing is, of course, comfortable. But it makes high demands on the figure. Clothes with funny inscriptions. Fishnet tights are needed only in an intimate setting, and not for general viewing.
Crazy hair accessories reminiscent of a kindergarten. Sweaters that make the figure baggy. If you really want, then of course you can wear what is loved. But at the same time, do not worry about the aesthetic tastes of your partner.
2. Excessive talkativeness and frankness
It is a great temptation with your partner to talk about everything in the world. If the partners coincide in this, it is very lucky. If not, no need to worry. There are specially trained people for confession. Priests in the churches. Psychologists. Parents. Girlfriends.
Personal space, feelings, boundaries of the partner’s personality - it’s better not to violate.
1. Lack of sense of humor
There are actually a lot of interesting and funny things in life. You just need to notice and be able to present what you saw from a comedic point of view. The ability to joke initially easier allows you to transfer any life situation.
Even a smile that triggers muscle contraction already improves mood. What is remarkable in a sense of humor is that it can and should be developed. You can start with yourself, your actions. From everyday situations.